Closeness Without Losing Yourself: When Love Becomes Surveillance
Bonding does not mean monitoring every silence. Sometimes the fear of losing the other makes you lose yourself, and calls that loss love.
Sep 29, 2026·7 min read
Bonding does not mean monitoring every silence. Sometimes the fear of losing the other makes you lose yourself, and calls that loss love.
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